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Well, before DeadSkirts, Femme Fatalities and Fetnoir, there was another message board run by a gentleman by the name of G-Man. Originally, it was called "Fatal Females", but that later evolved into "Femmegore". A little before I discovered the "Fatal Females" board, I was referred by a friend on a writer's site to a blog that literally changed my life! He was directing me to one of his published stories, but when I reached the site, all I could think about was the main article entitled, "Do You Like Dead Chicks?" I devoured the information therein, because I finally realized that I was not alone... that there were others who shared my hidden, secret fascination with female death scenes in cinema and comic books! In fact, they even had a word for it... an erotic death fetish!

So, I downloaded videos from Fatal Females like an addict, a chocoholic in a chocolate factory! I also read the posts and started to post myself. I remember a discussion as to which was the sexiest TV show... Mike Hammer or Silk Stalkings? After researching both shows and downloading some clips, I fell into the Silk Stalkings camp.
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I later recalled discussing the fetish with G-Man himself, and I'll always remember his comment to me that I took as a challenge... "What are you going to contribute to the community?" Well, I had benefited greatly from my time at the old FF, so I really took that to heart. I wrote and posted photo stories, then I ordered several DVD's of the Silk Stalkings TV show and ripped the female death scenes, packaged them, and sold them to the community, hoping to at least break even on the project. The project did well, and I soon took the logical next step of becoming a producer myself, starting with my first custom from Annabelle's Fantasy, which became the first episode of the "Silk 'N Blood" series, a series that was based in West Palm Beach, Florida, just like "Silk Stalkings", but that is now in its 21st season with 495 episodes released to date.
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When G-Man closed down Femmegore, I did not move to DeadSkirts, because I was spending most of my fetish time becoming a producer. I didn't much like the name "Femmegore", so when G-Man approached me about starting a new message board that he would help to build, I told him that I would do it for the community, but that I'd like to pick a name closer to the original "Fatal Females". So, I coined "Femme Fatalities" and that was over a dozen years ago!

So, what is your story, whether you're a producer, a contributor, or simply an interested community member? How did you discover and join this wild and wonderful death fetish community of ours?

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Sat Sep 19, 2020 6:01 pm
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Joined the web in '94, did a search for something asphyxia-related in '97 (don't remember what), and found Necrobabes through The Black Plague.

Like you, I wanted to contribute something to the community, so I started a free-access mainstream clip site in '99, and the rest is history.

For those of you not aware, I closed my site in 2018.

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Sat Sep 19, 2020 7:38 pm
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Well I eventually found this place after seeing W.A.V.E. adds in Fangoria Magazine (1997) and one hyper link led to one place to another from
places like Slaymates, Dark Fantasies, Necrobabes, Fatal Females, Femmgore and to here over these past 23 years.


Sat Sep 19, 2020 8:06 pm
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I discovered the online community back around 2000 or so, when I got my first personal computer and immediately typed in keywords like sex and death (I've been a deathbabe since I was a teenager in the 70's, but thought there was no one else in the world like me!)

I discovered Drop Dead Gorgeous and Club Dead, and was over the moon with happiness (and passion)!

In time I became a member of most of the boards and groups in the community, then in 2012 co-founded FetNoir with dear friend Kelli as my co-hostess. And as Nyghtfall says, the rest is history! FN has been going strong ever since, with a new branch on Discord opening up in addition to the main site, and a huge Gallery section to give a home to many of the fabulous artists in our community who have been displaced by DeviantArt's new censorship policies. I've been hosting the Masterson Awards for Death Fetish Filmmaking for six years now (and Blue has an impressive shelf full of Golden Jill awards from those events!)

It's really a glory to be part of this community. I adore you all!

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Sat Sep 19, 2020 8:40 pm
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Hi Grace! I just registered for Fetnoir. The security questions were quite the challenge for someone who just had a couple bourbons, but hopefully I am acceptable. I am trying to figure out if this is the same community my wife used to bust my boys about a decade ago. Her attractive co-worker and her bisexual husband selected us for a potential "date night", unknown to me. The cute brunette had my wife logging into fet-"something" and indulging her fantasies, which appeared to be a smorgasboard of anything and everything designed to make a veteran couple "swing". We had fondu with the swingers that night, and I didn't even realize I was "rejected" until the drive home when my cackling spouse informed me I had been rejected by Johnny handsome. My wife has a sadistic sense of humor and knew I would not have come for anything but dinner! LOL Anyway, I think their preferred site was fetlife or fet-something else dot com. But fetnoir reminded me of that night and I thought I would share just for the heck of it.

I don't recall how I found out about the Femme Fatalities board. I have been around since Necrobabes, Catharsis, Killville, Tricky Dicky and Dr. Don. So it is all kind of a blur. But, aside from the old Catharsis message board where you could interact with Becky and Carrie occasionally, I never really became involved until a couple of years ago. I was a consumer and a lurker, I guess. These boards make me nostalgic. Social media is so different than the expiring message board culture, but it is difficult for us older netizens to let it go. It is so much more fun than blasting people over politics or stalking social media influencers. I applaud Bluestone for keeping this community together and I am just grateful I happened upon it at some point in the dark recesses of my memory.


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tostig wrote:
The cute brunette had my wife logging into fet-"something" and indulging her fantasies, which appeared to be a smorgasboard of anything and everything designed to make a veteran couple "swing".


That was FetLife.com. It's facebook for adults.

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Sun Sep 20, 2020 12:33 am
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I think Necrobabes and Vicki. But ran the gamut through most of what people above have already mentioned. I can't really remember the order. It was 2002 or so.

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Thanks for joining us over at FetNoir, Tostig! I hope you will have great fun with us over there.

I do believe Nyghtfall is right and your memory is of Fetlife (as he says, a kind of kinky facebook), and at FN we are all about sex and death fantasies all day and all night long.

For those who fondly remember Necrobabes as a starting point for their discovery of our fetish, you can stop by and chat with JoeS (the Necrobabes founder) who has been re-posting huge packages of photosets from those classic years. I remember when I first encountered them back around the turn of the millennium...I thought I had died and gone to death fetish heaven!

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Hi,
I am also trying to create an acc on fetnoir but w/o any luck so far.
First waited for admin approval, now for activation of email but there is nothing in my email.
Just wonder how long does it usually take?

jasne


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