Cheers to the Man responsible for my entrance into this Community, and to a Good Guy in the Community......and for the incredible place he offered 'back in the day' that absolutely was what I needed to open myself to sexuality in general. Yes, fantasy enabled me to do that, and that is still thanks to G-Man!!
And on the 2-3 occasions I emailed him over the years, he was always gracious, friendly, kind, and understanding. Never heard a nasty word from the Man in my life, and he returned each email with a response.
I was NOwhere sexually in my late 20s, nowhere. And the 'first' FF is what enabled me to begin to get in touch with it all, and it's only continued to expand from there into the other areas of my life. I do not exaggerate when I say that G-Man's site and the people there are responsible for me being able to break many bonds of 'hang-ups' that I did not even know I possessed.....lol.
And the greatest gift of all was the Site at which people came together and shared their most intimate selves, fantasy-wise and other-wise.
That sharing gave me the confidence that now extends to all areas of my life, not just sports and academics. I learned that by being honest with Others about our most inner thoughts, we actually 'freed' ourselves and were engaging in very, VERY real relationships. And that enabled me to grow as an Adult and as a Woman.
And now my various career endeavors are ALL involved with getting in touch with and sharing our most inner selves, first to understand Ourself, and then to be able to interact with Others.
Without Fatal Females, I have no idea if I would have ever found that 'trigger' for myself, to coin a phrase.
Hope you are well, Guy, we all miss you!
Sandi