Member Geno's Suspension!

[Bluestone]

Hello All Members, Fellow Administrators, Moderators and Guests!

I wish to thank everyone who posted and/or voted on this subject. Many of your comments made it clear that there was fear of Geno’s return, some members even announcing that they would resign if Geno returned to FF. Others were wholly in support of Geno’s return. Yet others demonstrated a genuine desire to give Geno a chance to prove himself... to prove that his apology was sincere, that he could be a peaceful and contributing member of this very friendly and close community that has grown together under the FF banner. Well, if you’re wondering, I fell squarely into the last group.

As I mentioned on another post either here or on one of the other boards, FF Management was going to make a decision on whether or not to reinstate Geno early, taking into account the comments above and the poll results. I was confident that FF management would have reinstated Geno after serving half of his 30 day suspension provided that he would be on a limited access posting probation, and be watched closely by our moderators during this probationary period. That is no doubt what FF administration would have announced this weekend.

A few hours ago, I received information from sources that are 100% reliable. There is absolutely no doubt as to the veracity of the information that I received. I have agreed to protect my sources and to not go into detail as to the information that I received, but it is very troubling to me, and I have spent the last few hours pondering this matter before coming to this decision. I do not make this decision lightly, or out of any malice. I’d be lying if I said that I was not influenced by the comments above, especially the statements of resignations being tendered if Geno returned to this board, but, in the final analysis, that is not the ultimate reason for my decision as FF’s Head Administrator, and I take full responsibility for this decision.

A crucial part of Geno’s suspension being reduced to 30 days was his apology to Paul as well as all of the other persons and groups who were insulted by his famous flame post on FF. Well, Geno may have said the words, but he did not mean them. The information that I have obtained makes it clear that Geno has not changed his hatred for Paul. I can only assume that, if a major part of his apology is insincere, we cannot rely upon the rest of it. So, in light of this information, Geno’s apology is worthless. Geno also agreed to be civil on FF, if his ban was lifted. The information that I have demonstrates an obvious intention to skirt this restriction by encouraging others to disrupt this board on his behalf. Again, this demonstrates not only an insincerity, but an untrustworthiness on Geno behalf. Together, it is a mixture for disaster.

I hope that you have all come to know me as a fair person, slow to anger, but, when pushed, someone who does not suffer fools gladly. I have anguished over this decision more than many of you can know, because I really, really wanted to prove that everyone can get along in a mature, adult, but fun-filled, community. That was my true desire all along, and we will achieve it... but sadly without Geno.

Terms of reinstatement were set, a second chance was provided on the understanding that it would be the last chance. An apology and a promise to act civilly were delivered in word, but not in spirit. Those words were to cover the deception that lurked in their shadows. Accordingly, the terms of reinstatement were NOT met. It is with a heavy heart that I have to announce that Geno is hereby banned for life from the Femme Fatalities message board effective immediately

Bluestone
for FF Administration

[John Matrix]

Not true Mr. KHP. I invited you to come and make your slanderous accusations to my face, and I offered to even pay for the flight. There was no invitation to fight.

Indeed it was a private message. Would you like me to post your private threats? I did not think so.

Can we be friends now?

I know this is getting off the subject but John Matrix just invited me to come fight him in a private message. Said he would even buy the plane ticket. Guess he is tired of my abuse of Geno. What do you guys think? Should I take him up on it. Not sure who I'm really going to be fighting. lol

[Bluestone]

Gentlemen,

Please cease this discussion immediately. I am sick and tired of it!!!!

The next post by either of you on this thread tonight will result in an immediate suspension.

Other members may now have the opportunity to post their comments here without getting into the middle of cyber fisticuffs.

Bluestone

[John Matrix]

I thought, according to you, John Matrix, that I made slanderous remarks about Don? So why would I go to you John Matrix and say them to your face?

Your are confused young man. You made the threats to me in private messeges. Shall I post them?

Now can we be friends?

[John Matrix]

Well I'm sad that you made that decision to suspend Geno. The repercussions will be felt for many years.

[Bluestone]

John Matrix has been suspended for a day to cool off!

Bluestone

[Bluestone]

Well I'm sad that you made that decision to suspend Geno. The repercussions will be felt for many years.

I am also sad for this decision, but I had no choice. The repercussions will indeed be felt for many years, and I firmly believe that they will be much more positive than the alternative.

Blue

[Dalila di Capri]

Well Paul,

It does not look like your patience will be put to the test after all.

I still intend to post here, and I also still intend to post at DS.
I know Blue well enough to know that will not be a problem with him.

Does this mean however that now Blue will be banned on Geno's site?

Again a sad day for the community and too bad that we have more fights and dramas on these boards than in our fiims.

[bellystabs]

I was glad to see Michael Vick get a probationary reinstatement back into the NFL after he served his time and humbly apologized and agreed to the Commissioner's terms. Therefore, I would have been fine with Geno's reinstatement if his apology proved to be sincere and if he humbly and completerly abided by "Commissioner" Blue's condition's.

I was impressed and even swayed in my thinking by Dalila and Dennis and Big O. They have been unfairly treated by Geno in the past, and yet they were above holding grudges. I have never been personally attacked by Geno, but then again, I refuse to join DS.

However, Geno's long history of malicious attacks and despicable false accusations on most every board in our small community didn't give me much cause for hope. I am sad for Blue that it came to this, but I am not at all surprised. Geno betrayed Blue's trust and sense of fair play and left him no credible option other than a permanent ban. I commend Blue for taking a stand against such blatant hypocrisy and deceit. I am glad to be a member here.

[Mkkb]

Blue,
I trust and support your decision. You have demonstrated fairness and an open mind on any and every post I have even read by you. It appears that Geno has made his bed and it is time for him to lie in it.

Frankly I, and I know I am not alone, have had about enough of the recent drama. Too much "he said, she said" nonsense. I sincerely hope that this thread is the last of this, and that everyone simply moves forward.
Now back to the regularly schedule necro fetish

[Bluestone]

Blue,
I trust and support your decision. You have demonstrated fairness and an open mind on any and every post I have even read by you. It appears that Geno has made his bed and it is time for him to lie in it.

Frankly I, and I know I am not alone, have had about enough of the recent drama. Too much "he said, she said" nonsense. I sincerely hope that this thread is the last of this, and that everyone simply moves forward.
Now back to the regularly schedule necro fetish

Thanks for your support, Mkkb,

Yes, I agree. Too much drama for my tastes too, but obviously many people needed the opportunity to vent on this subject matter, and this is the thread to do it. As you say, however, there are many other threads (or rooms in the Bluestone mansion) that are devoted to enjoying our fetish. So, let me freshen everyone's hemlock, er, I mean, drinks, and let's enjoy them!

As Dalila stated above, many of you will be visiting here and at DS and PP. That is fine with me. This thread was about Member Geno, not about DS. FF still considers DS and PP as co-friendly boards, and has no plans to change that status.

Blue

[Bluestone]

Paul,

Tempers were running high, including mine. I have offered to reinstate John Matrix early, if he wants. I'm not into banning, but I had to separate you guys. So, there's no need to issue another ban.

I appreciate the olive branch, Paul. I've talked to John Matrix, and he's a good guy. I hope the two of you can bury the hatchet when he returns... and not in each other's backs Life's too short for disagreements, so let's make the disagreements short instead.

Good night, All. It will be a better day tomorrow. The sun will come up just like today, and we should all feel blessed that as long as there is life, there is hope. Perhaps, we can still all get along after all. Stranger things have happened.

Blue

[EvilBilly]

Hey, what do you know...The sun came up!! At least in my neck of the woods.

[Damon]

Well, it seems the likes of myself and EvilBilly have been named by JohnMatrix as public enemies over at DS for having the gall to speak out over Geno. To say I'm angry and fed up is an understatement.

This will be my last posting on any of these fetish sites, I am fed up with the whole business, and if my name is going to be used like this then I want no part of it. I've got a very fruitful real life, and don't have to put up with any of this where people seem intent on carrying on some sort of little war to fulfil their fragile egos. This is supposed to be fun, with people chatting about shared thoughts, not some mini online wargame.

For all who thought about defending Geno and his cohorts, just have a look at how these two bastards are behaving now.

Enjoy yourself guys and have good and fruitful lives.

[Dalila di Capri]

Well, it seems the likes of myself and EvilBilly have been named by JohnMatrix as public enemies over at DS for having the gall to speak out over Geno. To say I'm angry and fed up is an understatement.

This will be my last posting on any of these fetish sites, I am fed up with the whole business, and if my name is going to be used like this then I want no part of it. I've got a very fruitful real life, and don't have to put up with any of this where people seem intent on carrying on some sort of little war to fulfil their fragile egos. This is supposed to be fun, with people chatting about shared thoughts, not some mini online wargame.

For all who thought about defending Geno and his cohorts, just have a look at how these two bastards are behaving now.

Enjoy yourself guys and have good and fruitful lives.

This is exactly the kind of thing we don't need.

Has it not occurred to you that it works to DS' advantage to allow Geno to provoke people into quitting this board?? As this board shrinks Geno's will continue to grow. Individual members quitting this site or all sites is not going to do anything to the traffic that Geno, regardless of his methods, work so hard to make a success.

Geno no matter what has built his site the way he has by doing the things he does.

I believe that some thicker skin is called for here.

I for one want to make myself clear...I was NOT defending the commments that Geno made about Paul's mother...Those were disgusting...I also do not defend attacks upon the morality of Britton or any other actresses in this genre. I am an actress in this genre and would not want my own moral character called into question. I will not stand for it with others.

That being said I don't see why Blue's site should be punished for something that Geno said, or a fight between Paul and John Matrix. Paul has apologized for his part in it. I am willing to accept that.

Damon I am very sorry that you got dragged into the middle on some nasty business but is that any reason to stop posting at all sites?

I myself took a full 2 years off from posting at these sites and you know what it got me?

A bunch of fans who missed 2 years of my work.

So no it is not always pleasant...but this is how we communitcate with each other and in the case of producers display our work to our fans.

I would like it to be far more pleasant...and I will allow NO ONE to ruin it for me.

Damon I hope that you will reconsider because we producers need your input.

Baci