Member Geno's Suspension!

[EvilBilly]

When I read Damon's post, I took a look at DS and lo and behold I am named an Enemy of the State!! :idea: By none other than the 'wise and objective' JohnMatrix. All I can say is if anyone were to take a look at the DS posts on their All Topic board and the comments in this thread, it should be noted that it is JohnMatrix who is fanning the flames of discontent.

The actions that he is recommending to Geno (counter-nuking?) shows to me that he is working Geno's lather up.

And Geno's totally falling for it.

[EvilBilly]

Dang it, Paul...You have a very valid point.

[snuffit]

Well Done Blue, me thinks john matrix doth protest too much. ?

[Bluestone]

"A Bright New Day for our Fetish Community" (as opposed to the "Dark Day" thread on DS!)

Damon, I echo Paul's and Dalila's sentiments. The solution is not to leave all of these boards. The solution is to simply not bother to read any of the posts on DS, until they have something better to offer than tearing down this community.

I wish to publicly apologize to Damon, Paul and all of our other members for letting this drag on so long. I was going to come home, read the latest DS posts and respond accordingly to the lies and harsh words being said over there, but, I agree that life is too short to try to convince uncivil people to become civil. That was my mistake with Geno. Despite his horrific and hateful post here that got him banned in the first place, I really, really wanted to believe that he could change. That was my desire, but I now realize that will never happen. A leopard doesn't change its spots. Geno will never be able to interact peacefully here. I am absolutely convinced of that, and I have irrefutable proof to support that statement.

Why does Geno want to be a member here when he has his own apparently much larger board? I say apparently, because there is no way that he has 5,000 active members. Those are old numbers of every member and spammer who ever made an application to DS. FF's numbers are much more accurate. It is my belief that DS and FF are similar in membership numbers. But, to get back to the question posed... Why does Geno want to be a member here? There are to my mind only 2 reasons, and I believe both are true:

1. Geno knows that FF is a close community that has much more to offer than DeadSkirts;

2. Geno wants to disrupt FF, because he sees it as a threat to DeadSkirts.

Those are the only reasons that he wants desperately to be a member here.

So, did I go over to DS before making this post?... No! Do I know what's happening over there?... Sure... What always happens over there... negative thoughts, threats, insults, vacation packages... flame wars. Do I care what is happening over there?... Not in the least. Oh, I care about the people, because many of them are the same people who hang out here, but the atmosphere, frankly speaking, is the pits. So, why would I subject myself to it, and why should anyone else? Of course that is everyone's option. They can come here, and they can go there, and they can go to PP too. I just want this site to stand for something other than what DS has come to stand for. I want this site to be a friendly and welcoming place where we can come to share our fetish, and that is only possible if we cut out the cause of all of that negativity.

In case anyone thinks that Geno has any power over them... please think again. Sticks and stones, and all that. He cannot reach through cyber-space and hurt anyone. He doesn't have a monopoly over message boards in this fetish. The existence and growth of FF and PP has proven this over the past year. He can call FF a rival board or a renegade board or whatever he wants, but that doesn't make it so. He doesn't hold the deed to FF, I do, and I intend to make sure that I always do, and that I maintain and operate this site for the benefit of the members and the members alone.

Geno has emailed me and posted on DS saying that I can change my decision. Of course I can. It's my board, but I have determined that it is not in the best interests of Femme Fatalities. Accordingly, no matter what happens, I will never, ever, ever allow Geno to be a
member of this board. He has his own board to wallow on. The Lifetime Ban stands! I can assure everyone that FF shall continue to be a Geno-less board forever! End of story.

Sorry for being so long-winded, but I'm sick and tired of this subject, so I wanted to put it all into one post... and now the issue is settled, and I'm off to have some fun in this beautiful mansion that your have all built here in the serpentless garden.

Blue

[Bluestone]

Neo? Here? Wow!!!

Paul, I thank you for thanking me, and, of course, I agree that we should look toward a more positive future, but I can't agree that, although you've been vilified on DS where you don't even have a voice to defend yourself, that we should vilify others and stoop to their level. This is not Blue as moderator speaking. I am just expressing my opinion. I enjoyed your post. It was very humorous, but I have to state for the record that this thread is about Geno's suspension and the hard evidence that I have on Geno's subversive plan to attack FF from within. I have no evidence as to which agents he was attempting to use in this subversion. John Matrix is a member here and I have no reason to believe that he would do more than express his opinions on this board, which he has a right to do. Pennpaul is not a member of this board, but is welcome to join. Once again, only Geno and Bellydancer_killer have been banned from this board. Anyone else who wishes to join and/or post here will be granted the benefit of free speech. That is, after all, what separates us from the gang mentality that Geno encourages on that other board

Blue

[shootingmad]

May I ask what holds you back from showing such evidence?

Because, if you are a smart guy and I know you are, it would be much too easy to just show what you have and therefore silence any future complaints.

You are pretty much asking everyone to believe you and your judgment. I do, cause Ive read you for a long time and im willing to decide who to believe and whom to not. However, others may not chose to do so. Or might simply just believe there is no such evidence. And it is a serious accusation what you suggested above.

[Bluestone]

A fair question SM. It is because the evidence was contained in a private email to me. The source of the email and the contents are known to Geno, and have been verified by Geno in writing to me. If he was to deny their existence in writing on DeadSkirts, then I would post the full contents of these communications on this thread. Otherwise, I will not post this evidence. I will respect these private communications as long as Geno doesn't deny their existence. I believe in fair play, and there is nothing to be gained by throwing kerosene on a raging fire. I'm not asking you to blindly believe me. Geno is free to decide whether or not it is necessary to push this matter further. Just prior to making this post, a posted a communication to Geno suggesting that we just get on with running our respective boards. Hopefully, cooler heads will prevail and we can all get back to business as usual. I hope that sufficiently answers your question, SM.

Blue

[Bluestone]

Blue I'm not sure what part of my message gave you the idea we would stoop to their level. I thought I said the opposite. As far as identifying that there are 3 and not just Geno is done on the basis of many many post on DS, they have made their feelings very plainly known. Not anything that has shown up here. I am not suggesting that the other 2 not be able to join or post here. As you said, they are welcome. I merely state that if those hateful post make their way over here or any other post that are designed to start flame wars, we don't even bother answering them. Maybe I should rephrase that since most of what they are saying is about me. And it violates no rule for me to acknowledge an obvious hatred of me by these 3. Not every body likes me. I can live with that. But
it is a statement of fact long known by a lot of people. So to rephrase my statement, if hateful things are said about me either by name or by referrence to a known situation, I will not respond to them. My other post was suggesting we not respond to hateful statements made by them or any one but I will only apply it to me I guess.

Thanks for clarifying, Paul. I must have been dazzled by your Matrix imagery and thought you were saying something else. I agree with your re-phrased statement above. Thanks for your comments and advice, Neo. Oooops. Can I call you Neo? That's not your real name is it? I mean Paul sounds so made up, but Neo... now there's a name!!!

Blue

[shootingmad]

...speaking of which, would be a great scenario.

I mean, having a girl dressed in a whole leather costume and get shot. I really liked when Trinity fell off the building and got shot in slow mo. That was cool.

[EvilBilly]

Actually Switch (short blonde hair) was the one in white leather...Trinity was decked out in shiny black latex/rubber. Very Tasty. I don't suppose we could see Britton, Suzi, Mia, Maxine X or Petra in such an outfit?

[Bluestone]

Well, my friends, it is time to close this thread and let it sink down the page and into virtual oblivion. This incident has taken much too much time away from everyone's enjoyment of their fetish and each other's company here at FF.

Geno is still over-reacting and crying foul over at DS, even alleging that the above poll was somehow rigged. Talk about grasping at straws. There has been talk of cyber-bullies, nuking, and other such foolishness. Hopefully, all of those negative vibes will die out there too, before they permanently poison the atmosphere over there.

In retaliation for me not allowing Geno access to this board to disrupt it in his usual fashion, he has decreed that FF is on some sort of restricted status. Who gave him that power? Does the Civil Liberties Union know that he wields such far-reaching power? Wow! I am impressed... Not! I have said my goodbyes over there to the good people who have yet to find the open door to Geno-less paradise Now, I can spend more time over here where the focus is more on having fun enjoying our fetish.

John Matrix challenged me to post my DS goodbye post on FF. So, it has been posted in its entirety on the "Welcome back John Matrix" thread.

So, it is ended. Femme Fatalities, birthed only a little over a year ago, has moved out of the shadow of the big board, and struck out on its own. I thank this community for all of your support during these trying times. Now, let's turn off those soap operas being broadcast from that other board, and have some fun!

Blue